Timeline Myths: Why Buying a House Takes So Long

If you’ve ever bought a house, you’ll know this moment: you ask for an update and get told, “It’s with the solicitor.”

It sounds official, reassuring even. But here’s the truth, that’s not really an update. And it’s one of the many myths that make the home-buying process feel confusing and endless.

Myth 1: Once your offer is accepted, you’re nearly done

It’s tempting to think you’re on the home straight. In reality, this is where the real work starts. Searches, checks, and surveys all begin now, and each can take time, especially if multiple parties are involved.

Myth 2: You’ll exchange in 4 weeks

It’s possible… if you’re chain-free, paying cash, and everyone involved responds instantly. For most buyers, the reality is 12–16 weeks and that’s on a good day.

Myth 3: Your solicitor will keep you updated

They might. But more often, no news really does mean no news. That leaves you chasing emails, leaving voicemails, and refreshing your inbox in hope.

Myth 4: Delays are always someone else’s fault

Sometimes there’s no single person to blame. The process itself is slow, fragmented, and reliant on a lot of manual paperwork. It’s not you, it’s the system.

Myth 5: You just need to be patient

Patience is helpful, but it’s not the answer. What buyers really need is visibility: real updates, clear timelines, and control over the process, not vague reassurances and guesswork.

That’s exactly why we’re building I’m Buying. We want buyers to see real timelines, get alerts, and stay informed without the constant chasing. No jargon. No unnecessary delays.

If you’re buying a home and want to feel in control, join the waitlist at www.imbuying.ai.